TO BE WHO YOU ARE,YOU NEED TO COME OUT OF WHAT YOU ARE NOT.

Sometimes we need a bad person to do something right for a good person, no one is a bad person (its the bad things that they do that makes them look bad) and no one is a good person(its the good deeds they do that makes them look good).

Everyone can be tempted to do wrong to someone else;

Examples:

A person that never experienced love will never know how to love other people  until they find that one person that will show them what love is really about/ TO BE WHO YOU ARE,YOU NEED TO COME OUT OF WHAT YOU ARE NOT.

Just think about that, naughty boy you knew back then he got arrested and went to prison for 15 years and when he came out he was never the same,you see sometimes the smallest things we do for fun or to impress our friends can lead us to a bad space and then that same bad space will change your life forever in doing good,so that means if that naughty boy didn’t go to prison he was never going to find himself .

Just think about pride, that one person you know that has pride..sometimes that can kill you. Think about that guy that went to the club with pride and no one told him anything because they were all scared of him,but one day he was shot in that same club because he treated people as he pleases now he is on a wheelchair for the rest of his life,from up there to being  humble/ TO BE WHO YOU ARE, YOU NEED TO COME OUT OF WHAT YOU ARE NOT.

DO YOU KNOW WHO YOU ARE?

Not everyone is your friend, some people come into your life with an agenda.

Sometimes you need to make mistakes to get to know who you are.

Sometimes you need to pass problems to get to know who you are.

WALKING TOMBSTONES

I am sure that you read the heading and asked yourself what i mean about “walking tombstones”…LET ME TELL YOU WHAT I MEAN.

As people we intend to do things without thinking, we take each and every day as it comes sometimes that is the bad manner because we do things that will affect other people in the future.

For example:

A men that is called a father but he doesn’t do anything that shows that he is a father,what is he doing with his life? it is not always about money, how about loving them?

A person that kills other with words and bad attitude,what are you doing with your life?

A person that bad mouths people to feel good,are you alive or you are dead?, how can you feel good by hurting others?

As people we need to be kind,caring,supportive and willing to help others.

Let us change our ways as the year of 2017 is coming to an end,let us make sure we walk in 2018 as changed people not for someone else but for yourself. 

TAKE CARE OF THE TRUTH BEFORE TAKES CARE OF YOU.

It was once said that “take care of the truth before it takes care of you”

But what if the truth is hard to tell?

But what if the truth will break your friendship,relationship?

But what if the truth will hurt you the most because you kept it so long deep down?

What is better living with the lies or the truth?

The choice is yours.

 

 

Be thankful

As we approach the last days of the festive season, did we look back to everything we did? Whether it was good or bad,happiness or sadness,success or failure.

If you didn’t its time to do the right thing and look at the positive things and hold on to those specific things.

At the end of the day we need to be thankful, go back to the creator and be thankful,go back to your parents and be  thankful, go back to the person who helped you to get this far and just say thank you.

Have a blessed day full of love, joy and happiness tomorrow is CHRISTMAS DAY.

Where is your hiding place?

As we grow as people we intend to have a lot of privacy about a lot of things ,

Always posting on all social networks it doesn’t mean that life is as great as you display it to be.

Where is your hiding place? When things become so bad and you feel scared about everything, where do you hide?

Your bedroom?

Deep inside your heart? Where no one else can see.

If you are in a relationship, friendship or any other relationship that makes you feel sacred and insecure, if you see that specific person, you run to your hiding place you must know that you do not deserve to be there with him/her.

FREE YOUR SPIRIT.

My sunshine

Its that time of the year that we all show each other love and give gifts to one another and to those who have less than us.

Love.

Share.

Care.

Support.

Be someone’s  sunshine.

 

Take care of yourself.

No matter how busy you can be you need to remember that you come first in each and everything you do.

 

I know you need to work hard to get to your success.

I know its festive season you decided to party every day.

I know you want to prove yourself to your manager at work so that you can get that promotion next year.

I know you wake up in the middle of the night to write that book you want to publish next year, or you trade or you blog to reach your goals.

 

With all that going on in your life,remember one thing that at the end of the day you need to take care of yourself because you can’t work hard when you are tired.

Try and balance your hard work with alot of sleep.

IF YOU DO NOT TAKE CARE OF YOURSELF NO ONE WILL.

SEPARATION

[sep-uh–rey-shuh n] 

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noun

1.

an act or instance of separating or the state of being separated.

2.

a place, line, or point of parting.

3.

a gap, hole, rent, or the like.

4.

something that separates or divides.

5.

Law.

1. cessation of conjugal cohabitation, as by mutual consent.
2. judicial separation.

6.

Aerospace. the time or act of releasing a burned-out stage of a rocketor missile from the remainder.

7.

Photography. separation negative.

Separation is painful no matter how long you knew a person,

Sometimes people separate after one month,on year,or after few years of dating BUT the fact of the matter is that even if it can be one day of knowing that person it will still hurt if you had a strong connection with each other.

The saddest separation is DEATH,because we all know that when a person is no more,they will never come back to us.

Waking up in the morning is another chance of changing things in your life;

If you MISS HER, TELL HER.

If you wish to speak to him/her,DO SO.

If you want to fix things in your relationship or with your family members. ACT ON IT.

Do not wait for that day when you loose that important person and say to yourself(I SHOULD HAVE..)

Today is your chance. USE IT.

CHOOSE COMMITMENT.  BE THE BIGGER PERSON.

If you fail in fixing things with the other person,just know that you did your part and move on at the end of the day you tried.

DO YOU SOMETIMES HAVE AN INNER WAR WITH YOURSELF?

Whether the answer is YES or NO, but the truth is that we all have one of those days that we feel like giving up.

I CALL IT THE INNER WAR with yourself.

Sometimes we do things today and not thinking about tomorrow and whenever we seat down think of our history our inner soul just gets this inner war with ourselves and the more we look deeper the more darker it becomes,we intend to be afraid of being alone because of our own dark place inside.

We need to let go of the things that makes us darker inside,we need to look at the future and act on our mistakes.

You cant be afraid of yourself when you are alone,you need to be free with yourself and be clear at all times because the darkness will always be deep down hiding were no one else can see but you can feel.

CHOOSE LIGHT. NEVER GIVE UP.KEEP ON FIGHTING.

WRITE YOUR OWN OBITUARY

Read the headline once again,”WRITE YOUR OWN OBITUARY”,what do i mean about this?

I have asked few people to write their own obituary and the respond i got wasn’t very pleasant,no one wants to write their own obituary,no one wants to write that,everyone wants to write their wills and who they leave their inheritance with. NOT WRITING THEIR OWN OBITUARY.

What do i mean exactly..

From the day you were born till today you are writing your own obituary,why do i say so?

As from primary school,high school,university and everything in between that after you are done with your schooling years then you get a job and work hard on your success each and everyday,let me tell you that by living your life you are writing your own obituary you are just waiting for your death.

WE ALL SHOULD ASK OURSELVES this question(WHEN THAT DAY COMES is your obituary going to be how you wanted to live your life?)

The point of all this is that know your purpose in LIFE.