SHE WAS ONLY 33 YEARS OLD

As an old white man from England at the age of 48 years i have decided to travel to South Africa because i like travelling to different places,when i got to South Africa i decided to stay for three months because i was loving the vibes they had.

One day i went to the mall in Sandton and it was love at first sight saw a young beautiful women in the same shop as i was , because of what i was feeling i was not afraid to go to her, she was so kind as i thought and we decided to have lunch together so that we can know each other better, luckily enough either of us was in a rash and we were both interested.

After a month of going out we decided to go out and because of love i thought it was stupid of me to wait long so i popped out the question:’would you marry me?’ AND SHE made me the happiest man on earth and as MR SMITH i decided to stay in South Africa because of HER and we went back to England to meet my family and they were happy to see her and the SMITH family accepted her,so we were now planning the wedding in S.A and my whole family flee to S.A because the wedding was this side. Things went so quick for us we didn’t waste time and after the big day we moved in  together and she fell pregnant with twins and she was only 32 years old then the following year she gave birth to two beautiful  boys and i was getting older as time passed by and we still went out of the country for holidays with our kids,she left her workplace in becoming a house wife and enjoying travelling with me as i went in and out of the country because of my business deals all around the world.

As soon as our children turned one year old, we left them with their grandparents and traveled together to take a break from the children and when we got to UK, she started being sick and i took her to the doctor and we found out that she has a heart disease, she couldn’t breath most of the time so we had to go back home in S.A so that she can take treatment that side and take it easy and heal slowly for the boys, i and the families.

 

But sickness defeated her and it succeed, she died ,she left us in hospital and it was so heart breaking for myself because she is the love of my life and now she is gone from the face of the earth she left us all behind, this really affected the both families in a huge way because she was still young and just like that she was GONE from our eyes, all was left was me and my boys in this huge house..

 

Oh GOD she was just 33 years old, why so soon?

I am left all alone this is how i feel right now, the love of my life is GONE forever, but why DEATH?WHY?

IVY WAS JUST 33 YEARS OLD.

 

THE PAIN WE FEEL INSIDE

This picture tells a really sad story with emotions in it,

It shows how much pain the women is in through her vines deep down these pains are not seen by everyone but they are felt inside in this woman and since she has given birth to a beautiful baby girl her beauty is not seen in this picture because of the pain she is breast feeding from her mother,her tears are dried up because of the pain and suffering she feels from her mother.

These are the things women go through each and everyday even when the pain and suffering is not told to the world but it is there,A women is strong because after giving birth the men can leave her but she will fight her grounds to make the best of her child,

WE do not choose to be born in a poor family or environment but it will be our choice when we are older because it is up to YOU to change the lifestyle you were born in.

WHAT IS HAPPINESS?

Mirriam Webster defines happiness as the state of being happy. Happy is defined as  favoured as favoured by luck or fortune.

Thousands of candles can be lighted from a single candle,and the life of the candle will not be shortened. Happiness never decreases by being shared.

Success is not the key to happiness. Happiness is the key to success. If you love what you are doing, you will be successful .

This is how people define HAPPINESS, NOW LET ME EXPLAIN HOW I DEFINE HAPPINESS.

• You become happy after something has happened in your life, e.g: You want to be rich to be happy but when you get the money it is not happiness ,  money and success is not happiness

• DO NOT CHOOSE HAPPINESS , I SAY CHOOSE BEING JOYFUL

• BEING JOYFUL : is when you have joy inside you it comes naturally and no one will ever take that away from you so it all starts with you, no one else but you.
• All i am trying to say is that do not wait for something to happen in your life to be happy with your life, be joyful and when wonderful things start happening in your life then you can be happy but what is more important is that be joyful.