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THE DARK HOUSE WITH SECRETS…
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The Criminal Law (Sexual Offences and Related Matters) Amendment Act, 2007 is the relevant legislation in South Africa. Despite the fact that this act provides modern and progressive laws, that ban rape and other forms of sexual abuse, including sexual violence within marriage, South Africa remains a country where sexual attacks are common. The country has some of the highest incidences of child and baby rape in the world with more than 67,000 cases of rape and sexual assaults against children reported in 2000, with welfare groups believing that unreported incidents could be up to 10 times higher.[209] In 2001, a 9-month-old was raped and likely lost consciousness as the pain was too much to bear.[210] Another 9-month-old baby was raped by six men, aged between 24 and 66, after the infant had been left unattended by her teenage mother. A 4-year-old girl died after being raped by her father. A 14-month-old girl was raped by her two uncles. In February 2002, an 8-month-old infant was reportedly gang raped by four men. One has been charged. The infant has required extensive reconstructive surgery. The 8-month-old infant’s injuries were so extensive, increased attention on prosecution has occurred.[211] A significant contributing factor for the escalation in child abuse is the widespread myth in HIV-ravaged South Africa that having sex with a virgin will cure a man of AIDS.[212][213] According to official figures, circa 11% of South Africans are infected with the virus.[214] Edith Kriel, a social worker who helps child victims in the Eastern Cape, said: “Child abusers are often relatives of their victims – even their fathers and providers.”[212]
A warm greetings to you all readers.
How do you feel after reading that first paragraph? at the end day of the day this is reality but as the BLACK generation we hardly speak about it.
A man needs to understand that NO means NO.
It hurts my feelings as i create this image in all our minds;
One day in a rural house where stayed a FAMILY (full house with uncles; aunts; children; great grandchildren and their parents) this family really loves each other for years staying with one another and growing well respected children.
Let us look at the history line one of the uncles (Peter) is not married and has a weakness of raping the girl child (generation- generation) and the adults knows about this but it has been a family secret that they never share with anyone because they say they are protecting the FAMILY NAME, but in this process of ‘protecting the NAME‘ the family is destroying the children’s future because this thing hunts them for life and it is not being reported to the relevant people to get help.
It happened that one day he raped the five year old one and she also didn’t speak out because he promised her that if she speaks he will kill her; so she grows up in that same house and it happened everyday and when she was 13 years of age she started writing down her feelings in a dairy and her mother saw it and read it; she was shocked of what she saw because she didn’t know about this FAMILY Secret.
So the mother called a family meeting and told them what has been happening and the adults said if they ever take out this family secret it will be the end of the family name and they will lose the respect from people just because the mother couldn’t handle the situation she ran away from home and went to the big city ‘take in mind that she left her child in the same house’ so nothing has changed the uncle still does the same thing to the little one and she grew up with that scare and she ended up having children of her own through rape and still the family said nothing about it and she left her children as well just like her mother, off to the big city and her children went through the same thing as her.
This shows that families may keep deep secrets and at the end of the day those decisions kill the coming generation.
We need to stand firm and fight; NO MEANS NO.
WHY ARE WE NOT ANSWERING CALLS THAT ARE LANDLINE?(012,011,031,021…)
It came to my concern that a lot of South Africans are living in debit because of the following reasons;
1. They want to keep up appearances.
This is the dreaded “keeping up with the Joneses” mentality. But little do you know, the Joneses have a leased BMW, an underwater mortgage, and an unwelcome visitor named Sallie Mae living in their basement. The Joneses are the most broke people in your neighborhood! And if you’re not careful, you’ll be following them into bankruptcy by trying to keep up with them.
2. They don’t think they make enough money.
Most of the time, it’s not someone’s salary that’s the problem—it’s their behavior. Spending more money than you make will cause you to stay in debt. That’s why it’s so important to budget.
Budgeting can help you see where your money is going every month and where you can cut back. Simply making a budget and being intentional with your money will make you feel like you got a raise!
That’s not to say income doesn’t play a large role in why people stay in debt. Sometimes it really is an income issue. If that’s the case for you, start doing things to bring in extra cash! Get a part-time job on nights or weekends and sell everything that’s been collecting dust in your garage. Or maybe it’s time to get bold enough to ask for a raise or put your resume out there and start looking for a higher paying job.
3. They are unwilling to sacrifice.
How could you possibly give up eating out three nights a week? Or what would your life look like without cable? You’ll never know until you’re willing to give something up in order to build a legacy for your future. If you’re in a lot of debt, something in your lifestyle has to change. Here’s a question to ask yourself: What am I willing to temporarily give up?
4. They have no hope.
When you’re buried under thousands of dollars in debt, it’s easy to feel like there’s no way out. After making minimum payments month after month and seeing little or no headway, sometimes you feel like you’ll never see the light at the end of the tunnel. If you can’t find a reason to keep up the fight, sooner or later you’ll probably just throw in the towel.
5. They’re addicted to stuff.
In other words, they’ve bought into the myth that you are what you own—and they simply can’t get enough. The more they have, the more powerful and confident they feel. But it’s all fake. They can’t afford that stuff and it’s going to weigh them down. At some point their addiction to debt will cause a financial heart attack.
Our culture has twisted what it means to actually be able to afford something. Society echoes, “If you can ‘afford’ the minimum payment, then go ahead and buy it!” That’s just ridiculous, and it’s a sure ticket to financial regret. You’ll end up spending more on monthly payments to pay it off than if you would have just bought it outright! Instead, don’t buy things you can’t pay for in cash.
6. They don’t make it a priority.
They keep putting it off thinking, I’ll start a budget next month. But each month passes by and guess what? Still no budget. Paying off debt isn’t exactly a fun pastime. It takes a lot of work! We know changing your lifestyle is uncomfortable, but the end result is 100% worth it. Make it a priority!
7. Their spouse isn’t on the same page.
Money and relationships can be tricky territory, especially when a couple isn’t seeing eye to eye. Maybe one of you is fully committed to becoming debt-free and the other isn’t quite convinced that debt is all that bad anyway. If you really want to get out of debt, you and your spouse have to be on the same page with the same vision for your future.
And remember, it’s not “my” money or “their” money—it’s our money. Once you get married, your vocabulary needs to change. You’re on the same team, and it’s time to start acting like it.
The same goes for your debt. It’s not “his credit card debt” or “her student loans,” it’s your collective debt together. And if you want to get rid of it, you need to tackle it as a united front.
8. They aren’t managing their money.
According to a survey by U.S. Bank, only 41% of Americans follow a budget.(1) No wonder so many people feel like they’re spinning their wheels getting out of debt! If you don’t have a monthly budget, you don’t really have a plan for your money. You aren’t telling your money where to go, so it’s going out the window!
9. They haven’t cut up their credit cards.
Getting out of debt is amazing. But if you keep those credit cards around for a rainy day or “emergency,” you’ll likely land yourself back in debt again. Just don’t do it. Cut them up, close the accounts, and be done with them forever. If you follow our plan, your emergency fund is your safety net—not credit cards.
With all these points we as people end up being depressed because of how the society treats us and we want to maintain that standard and end up in debits.
It all goes back to your inner self; it needs to start with you, BE YOU AND BE REAL.
WELCOME TO THE MONTH OF THE FEMALE WORLD
..THE WORLD OF CREATIVITY, THE WORLD THAT IS FULL OF LIFE,THE WORLD THAT GIVES BIRTH TO THE NEXT GENERATION ,
WHO IS THIS WORLD? IT A WOMEN..
We as women are all different and unique in different ways and that alone is what makes this world so colorful and full of JOY.
- A strong women goes through HELL back and fourth and still smile and provide the love she has for others, you will never know that they are going through unless you ASK THEM AND THEY TELL YOU, if she doesn’t tell you, you will never know that is the world i am talking about.
- Think like a QUEEN because you are the QUEEN.
- GOD made them with love,faith and peace these people are the world that i am talking about, the world is a WOMEN.
- They are our (SARAH & MARY) just like the bible quoted them to be in the different roles they played.
- People hurt you and bring you down but because you are a women you wake up every morning and shine like the sun and every night you shine like the star.
- She is so strong even when she is in pain she says I AM FINE.
- As a little girl you dream and as a women you have a vision.
- You take care of the whole community like your own family.
- You are beautiful, strong and independent so show all of that; do not let people take advantage of your kindness just because you are a women.
- Sometimes the people you love the most are the ones that hurt you the most but just because you are a women you choose to let go and be strong because you know your creator that lives in you.
- We need to stand together as women to conquer all our challenges (it can be abuse, it can be depending on someone, it can be low self esteem, it can be doubting ourselves) THE WORST IT CAN BE IS LOOKING DOWN AT EACH OTHER.
IS IT A HOME OR IS IT A HOUSE?
There is a difference between a house and a home,
Ask yourself this question (in what environment are you staying in)
A HOME
When you get home you all communicate about the day you had at school or at work.
You all eat at the same table for dinner.
Its easy to talk to your parents about anything that is troubling you because they make the time for YOU even if they are so busy but when they get HOME they use that time with the family
A HOME is warm, NO matter how big or small it is but theres love and peace
Even if we fight at times but that warmth never dies.
A HOUSE
A big HOUSE without peace.
A RICH family that dont get along.
Parents are too busy growing businesses and leaving the house empty without LOVE but with all the MONEY.
Is that enough?
Children will grow without that parent LOVE and they will get it elsewhere.
Everyone eats in their rooms with their own TV and everything else that they need.
There is no communication in a HOUSE, it will be FULL of success but everyone feels alone at night when they sleep.
I do not say people must not follow their BIG dreams and make a lot of MONEY, all these things are part of our success we all want to be successful we use all our resources for this success, BUT what we must not forget is that when we get all those things we always wanted we must not FORGET where we come from and who we ARE inside.
MOVE ALONG WITH YOUR FAMILY THEN YOU WILL FIND HAPPINESS.
SPEND TIME WITH THEM.
REMEMBER THE LITTLE THINGS YOUR KIDS SAY(like those afternoon games you need to attend and watch them play).
REMEMBER THAT YOU ARE BLESSED WITH ALL THE SUCCESS GOD GAVE YOU.
USE IT WISELY.
Before you wake up in a HOUSE full of emptiness….
STOP WATERING SOMETHING THAT WAS NEVER MEANT TO GROW IN YOUR LIFE
As people we intend to water things that are not meant to grow;
Those relationships that are affecting you negatively.
Those friends that are bad influence in your life.
Those family members they are always getting you in trouble.
But you keep on watering them but all they bring in your life is negative things.
As people we need to learn to let GO.
They are things that are not for YOU, you get people doing something because everyone is doing it BUT the big question is, IS THAT YOUR PATH?
If it is not your passion know that you are just wasting time on that, sometimes you need to do things alone STOP doing things as a group.
Some people come in our lives for a REASON and for a SEASON and others come in your life for a LIFE TIME.
WHAT IS GOSSIPING?
We all define this in different ways..
Other people say if you talk about some One else you are gossiping about them?
Picture this…
I tell someone about how beautiful you are.
I tell someone about how handsome you are.
I tell someone how successful you are.
IS THAT GOSSIPING?
I tell someone that you are a theft,
You are an abuser,
You are a jealous someone,
You dont like people,
IS THAT GOSSIPING?
Is it gossiping if you speak about someone not in there presence?
Is it gossiping if you speak about someones success not in there presence?
FOOD FOR THOUGHT...Then if it is not gossiping, then what is gossiping?
From my point of view, it is gossiping if it is lies,but if it is the truth i do not consider that as gossiping.
POWER HUNGRY…
Having a strong desire for power, usually a dictator.
POWER HUNGRY..
Most people are power hungry for success they will do anything for it or to get it.
Ladies will sleep with their managers just to get that power or position.
Other people can try by all means to bring you down just to get on top.
Others use your weaknesses to get on top.
Others use their strengths to get on top.
At the end of the day all these people are power hungry.
BUT is it wealth it? To get on top with other people tears ?THINK ABOUT IT.
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